so, for starters. . .
hey, my name is Jayden!! you can call me Jay if you like, as most people do :) i'm 15, from Ireland, and use he/they pronouns
i use tone tags as i struggle with understanding tone, and have a major fear of miscommunication - if you need me to use them more frequently, please let me know!! if you have an issue with people using them, unkindly get off of my page ^^
i have social anxiety disorder and may be hesitant to message first, so please be patient with me!!
i may unadd if i see lack of interaction, i do not want a huge friends list - nor do i want ''friend collectors'' on it
i mostly interact with people through bulletin posts and profile comments, however, ims are fine!! i prefer the format of bulletins, but if you'd rather im me, that's perfectly okay!!
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boundaries ꩜ .ᐟ
i'd prefer if people around my age add me, but it's fine if you're 18+, just please keep things sfw
do not add me if you're under 13, please - there will be no exceptions
if you're on here just to look for a relationship, i am not here for that - please do not add me for that reason, it makes me extremely uncomfortable
i will not give out the specific county ( equivalent to states in the US, though much smaller. . . ) i'm from, purely for safety - please do not push me to answer that
i swear at times, and that's the extent of what i say
i do not say slurs, regardless of if i can reclaim them or not - but i have no issues with someone using slurs that they can reclaim, and as long as it's not hurting anyone
do not interact with me in a directly nsfw way - this should be common sense, but i've been on the internet long enough to know that that is not the case - please do not bring up sexual topics without letting me know beforehand, thank you!!
do not add me if you watch real gore ''for fun'' - i am not arguing with anyone about this, i will immediately block you - i don't understand anyone who finds enjoyment in watching someone's child, sibling, friend, parent, or partner get hurt
you are sick if you enjoy any of that, please get professional help
if you need to vent, i'm here!! don't hesitate to message me if you're feeling down, but please, please call that hotline if you're thinking of doing something serious; take care of yourself <3
Samaritans ; 1-877-870-4673
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline ; 1-800-273-825
SAMHSA's website
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moving on from that, keeping things more light hearted - i have a lot of interests, and love to ramble about them, and hear others ramble about their own!!! don't hesitate to message or reply to my bulletins and dump a shit ton of info about something you're into, i LOVE it!!!
i'm ALWAYS up for media recommendations, even if i procrastinate on indulging in them. . . don't hesitate to recommend me stuff!!!
lastly, i speak English, as a native - Irish (poorly, but if anyone on this site is somehow from the Gaelteach, feel free to teach me...) and Japanese, at an N5 level - i can hold basic conversations, but i am FAR from fluent, so please don't expect that x)
i frequently leave my laptop on while online on Spacehey, so if i am online and and i don't reply straightaway, please do not take it to heart!! i'm probably just busy with something else - apologies for the inconvenience. . .
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thank you for reading, take care!!
*this blog will update as i see fit
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