lost my OW2 comp match

its so fucking stupid when I ask for someone to join vc n then everyone leave? i even went out of my way to kinda joke around n seem invitin but bitches cant take jokes anymore, no matter what they are. im in Silver n i dropped off from plat cause of school n work being to much and holy shit people cant take advise on what to change or how to be better! they always have to be the one in the right no matter what, even if it costs games and its so fucking dumb.