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! boundaries !

im not comfortable making sexual jokes with people online cause i really dont know who im talking to behind the screen, so its a bit weird 😭 unless if we talk a lot and i get comfortable with you then maybe ill make some things pass, just not too overboard. also im a minor, isnt it self explanatory?

pls ask before venting, i know its common sense but yea just in case. if im sad too i wouldnt want to deal with a whole 'nother dump of problems sometimes..


(ill add more later.. idk what else to put. comment if u wanna ask questions)


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probaly the realest blog ever, I hate when people I js met online starts making sexual jokes with me. like, hello?! We just met? I don't know who you are behind that screen?!!@!!!'1!?! I even feel weird when I make jokes like that with my bsf who I have known for about 3-4 years, and I just met you 5 minutes ago, no way I will get THAT close with you for you to be able to make jokes like that.

Also, the venting part is so relatable to be honest, of course it's kinda common stuff for people to ask for comfort from strangers online cause it's more secure yk and whenever ppl around you aren't really understanding, and you have no opportunity to contact a therapist, that's the only way you can talk about your feelings.

But let's be honest, js because you need to vent doesn't mean everyone will be avaible to you, so I feel like, before venting, everyone should ask if they are avaible or not, cause others have feelings too, and everyone have a lot in their plate.


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im glad someone else understands, i thought i was the only one feeling this way. i was a bit scared of saying the venting part cuz i didnt want people to think i was ignorant about other people's feelings

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yeah people are rlly sensitive about venting but lets be real js because ur feeling sad doesnt mean someone has to abandon whatever they were doing for u, unless it's smth like extremely urgent

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