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I need ur help!!!

ok, hmm a few days ago I met a boy who is really my type...he also seemed interested in me so we started liking each other's highlights on ig and he ended up asking me out, then I definitely accepted...but guys... I was lately very alone, going to bars with friends and having fun, but meeting him made me completely change my mind, now I would be willing to risk something. Continuing, we talked a lot for 4 days. However, the only part I don't like about really liking someone is thinking excessively and starting to be insecure about whether he doesn't want me... yesterday our conversation died due to lack of topics, and until now we haven't spoken to each other. NOW I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM, LIKE AHHH WHY HASN'T HE SENT ME A MESSAGE YET??? 

note: he said he was shy, and I hate having to message first so I don't sound desperate... 

WHAT SHOULD I DOOO

another observation: I sent the last message 

Should I text him or should I wait ....




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aww don't overthink it! i think an important part of being in a relationship is also treating the other person not like they're a god, but simply as a friend :) maybe if you guys have any interests in common, you could host activities regarding it, etc, so there'd be more topics to talk about.
its also important to give your partner some personal space sometimes too!


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You're absolutely right!! I fought against my ego and sent him a message, and now everything is fine... Thank you for commenting and leaving your opinion. :)

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