That sounds pretty obvious, but its surprising to me how many times I see this. Maybe because I live in a balkan country, but I don't think these people think too far ahead. It makes sense, since millenians got married after a few days of knowing each other bcs it was the dorm. But lately ive been seeing the youth do this too. So this is just some life advice
If you want to get married, check some things about your partner before you do:
Try to live with them before you get married, like temporary roomates or something, to see how they behave when they have to take care of a house or place, because no one wants to do all the house work while the other does nothing or goes to a job all day and complains after abt their partner's work for staying at home.
If you want to have kids, check to see if they are good with kids. I don't think you'll like to have a kid traumatised or some shit bcs your partner just couldn't handle it and didn't have the patience. Or even worse, get abusive after the kid/s bcs they are stressed
See their overrall way of thinking. People change after some time, and you dont know if they are gonna change for the better or for worse. So I reaaalllyy dont think its a good idea to get mf married without even a year together :/
This may seem like obvious things to know for people on the internet, but istg i see this shit happen more often than i thought it would
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