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what's wrong with people?

i got on this website to make friends and talk to ppl, but i'm CONSTANTLY bombarded with friend rqs from ppl who add me and never engage!! idk why somebody would do that in the first place, but i specifically asked on my profile to NOT do that, but ppl can't seem to know how to read (or want to)! 

and don't even get me started on ppl that say on their profile they "want to meet new people and chat ^_^" but when you actually try to talk to them their answers are "thank uu" "oh yeah lol" or simply "yes/no". it's even better when they don't reply to u for days despite being online and active

phew okay ...


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Bug

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this is exactly why i left SpaceHey!!! i made my first acc around 3 years ago, lots of friends but NOBODY TALKED TO ANYONEEE!!!! so i left, but im giving it a 2nd try! fingers crossed (;-;)


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lanadoodles

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yea same... i was hoping to make some friends on here >.< but i can never get much engagement here


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Cronixix

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The original MySpace and Facebook were much the same. Ya gotta sort through all the garbage people who just want to use you to boost their friend count and find the people that want to talk to you. It takes persistence.


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Alavenderbush

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Honestly, I'm kinda scared that people are going to think I'm hitting on them. I mean, we live in a culture that considers liking someone's insta stories as "flirting".
I just want to talk about chick flicks with someone TT
Also, the only time I had an actual conversation about music, the other person disappeared


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updawg

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i have spent like 20 min on here and im convinced this place is dead, what in the world is going on, talking to ppl would sound great tho


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Akira☆

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I personally am friends with a some people I don't talk to but I don't pay it to much mind to it recently when a user sends me a friend request and they have more than 1000 friends I just don't accept it


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Azu-Charles ଳ ‧₊˚ ⋅

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Ahh ! I'm new to this website but the thing is that i'm pretty shy with starting conversations.. even though i really do want to start them! I'm always worried that i'm going to encounter dry texters, so i secretly hope someone will text me first, haha.. i think i'll start putting more effort into texting people first though ! i really do like talking, honest ! (・・;


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Maxwell Vandenburg

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I haven't used my profile for a year and only checked back in today


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B0r1sXD

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as vezes, as pessoas te seguem apenas por gostarem dos seus blogs e não querem interagir, apenas para não te perder de vista


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UR_NMBR#1.FAN!!!

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I think it’s because some are too shy (like me irl.) yk?? I try to interact with people I friend, (if I can, ofc!!) but sometimes I’m away so I can’t check!!!


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Yeah I agree, im mostly really awkward and I normally wait for people to engage with me first but I end up looking as cold <:(

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tobey

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i like to think its cause people r probably 2 shy 2 dm people or somethfin like that. and i admit, im a bit guilty of adding people and not interacting at all but i do try to interact wwith them via bulletins and blogs :,,u!!!

i just usually wwait 4 some1 to dm me first, as silly as that sounds


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scourge the jeff the killer

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tbh i use bulletins and comments 2 meet n talk 2 ppl way more because im scared of dming ppl


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elliotgotscared

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hate this too ngl.. imma be sneaky and use these comments to find people who actually wanna talk lolol


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Same dude

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Liiyan

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I wanna talk to people but they don't seem like they wanna talk to me. So I won't expect anything anymore.


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I hope you don't mind someone else than the creator answering of this blog but I fully understand u ,Like I've stopped posting bulletins cause nobody would read them or interact with me .

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ChordFall

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I’m sending a bunch of friend requests because I am expecting most of them to be ignored. Hopefully that’s not the case ;_;


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alec

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no fr it's so difficult to find people who actually want to chat rather than just a long ahh friends list


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⋆౨ৎ˚⟡𝚅𝚎𝚒𝚕🦢˖ ࣪

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I agree with this so much. It got to the point I had to add that I don’t really accept friend requests but I’m still open for messages nevertheless :P


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Rooc0re

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Honestly, what happened to actual online friendships where people ac wanna talk to you and make friends :/


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Scratch

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Pretty new to this website but I pray that does not happen to me... I'm just trying to meet cool people T_T


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Fr, I just joined, but I have been on here on another acc last yr, and I never chatted, so I deleted the app lol. It's so annoying when that happenz tho.

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erin ✧˚ ༘ ⋆。˚

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yeahhh i would like to make online friends- in my bio i even put im open to being DMed but no one really messages me, wish ppl took this website more seriously :/


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