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romanticizing stalking is weird

im sure im not the only one who thinks thiz but those 'girls/guys' who always talk about 'stalking his following' or 'stalking him', 'wanting a stalker'/'stalkers are so hot' obviously have never come across an obsessive/ possessive person. it is not something to romanticize.

Most nearly all of the time stalkers are not conventionally attractive pplz - they are socially challenged people who (if u ever got into a relationship w) would not allow u to do ANYTHING at all no friends no nothing., if u ever had a stalker it would not be fun or hot or attractive, its scary and disgusting and uncomfortable, as soimeone who had an obsessive/possessive ex if felt like i was trapped and i would never of thought ppl out there WANT a relationship like that.

anyone who has that mindset is most l;ikely a gooner/booktok/ or c.ai using weirdo. 

ur stalker would most liekly over power u - do u harm or worse. it is not somthing to get the hots about u freaks go outside for once and touch some damn grass and reconnect with nature u fucking gooners


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Ig just want to share my story. I can't call it the kind of stalking you can think about. But i often get into non-strange ppl and i can't avoid them until someone points out the problem to me.

Everything happened online and it was not so scary, but the unpleasant moments remained in me, from which I slightly closed myself.

Girl, she found my social networks,number, found my parents. It's not that it's hard to do nowadays, but when she did, I was worried. She constantly scared me in calls, made me feel uncomfortable and told me how much she liked it when my voice trembled, how scared i was. After each conversation, I was shaking. I was 13 and a terribly naïve loner. She fed me good words, and then she got angry when i didn't do what she wanted. She even sent her cuts with hearts... uhhh, she left, im glad she wasn't that crazy to stalk me.


Guy, we met in the game and he was a very good person. He liked me and he often supported me, gave me compliments. We started dating, at a distance, of course. After a while, he began to get jealous, he said to give him my tik tok account, the account of my game. He asked to delete all the guys and all the videos with my face. He took up my whole day, i was almost left alone, without communication with my friends.But my heart broke, he loved me so much that I began to suffocate from the daily "I love you". There were many nasty and unpleasant moments that i will not say here. But it all ended when i wrote about the breakup. I cried for a long time, he persuaded me to come back for several days. He convinced me that i was really just a silly girl and i loved him.
I refused him for the last time.

"Didn't work." -he said.
-what?
"I didn't want to give you a choice but to agree"
......


Sorry, i wrote a lot, i just had a great desire to share this story.
I can understand people who romanticize stalking because they want fierce attention to themselves(I'm the same). Anyone can imagine it in AI chats, but in real life it's really terrible. Some ppl simply did not understand the whole problem.


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