Pet Peeves

I know this is probably going to sound insensitive, but I promise I don't mean to be.

The most frustrating thing in the world is people who refuse to solve their own (basic) problems and choose to complain about it. Like, the people who whine non-stop when they have a headache and refuse to take Tylenol. Or complain about a very simple tech problem and refuse to google the solution. Obviously I understand sometimes people don't have the motivation to do more complex tasks, but when you're a grown adult you should be able to take agency and trouble shoot your own problems.

It's also just really frustrating when my friends whine in call about being tired or hungry while refusing to solve the problem. Like if you don't want to take care of yourself thats on you, I don't want to hear about it for hours on end. Especially after we do the whole song and dance of "you should eat/sleep" and trying to encourage better behavior. At the end of the day I just don't know what they want me to actually do other than give them attention. If we were 15 that would be one thing but being in your 20s and acting like that just really rubs me the wrong way.