why i love being a gender neutral friend

so as the subject suggests, I'm a gender natural friend. Im really good friends with girls and guys like being in both groupchats and being invited to boy's night and girl's night, I'm top tier level gender neutral friend. 

But there is one downside, WHEN THEY DATE AND BREAK UP. 

Now I'm stuck between to sides both trying to convince me and get my help. so currently rn I'm texting both ppl and trying to convince one of them to talk to the other so they can be chill (Mostly bc one still loves the other) so yeah very fun being stuck in the middle, I love writing long paragraph texts to one about how they need to talk to the other bc its good for the both of them :(

eh its whatever, I love both sides of my friends, they're great.