i get so afraid of messaging or talking to people first, its the part i hate abt myself, i used to be so social as a kid and now i find it extremely difficult. Like i wanna dm first but part of me has no idea what to say, yknow>? like AAAAAA i wanna make more friends but its so scary for me. I'm here for ya dude, i feel ya!
I know, right? like what's wrong with me. I guess we gotta keep at it but people seem like they're mostly already established in some sort of friend group or hard to vibe with..
What you said!!! i also ask myself what tf is wrong with me but i try to ignore that part of me. we just gotta keep at it and not give up and practice with people we meet!! My dms are always open if you ever wanna msg! Some people may be already in friend groups and some may be hard to get to know but there will always be people who are willing to talk and get to know you. Just gotta find them. I usually only find myself be able to easily talk to people and social is when im drunk at a bar LOL, cause i dont stress abt what im gonna say to them and i'm not overthinking. I literally sang a whole slipknot song with some random people, and it felt really nice!. But yeah i'm trying my hardest to reach out to people and make friends, stepping out of my comfort zone fr.
I found it so much harder socalizing as an adult, it always just feels awkward and like everyone just wants to keep to themselves
I found friends through local events, I mustered it up to go alone and interact with booths/other people there best i could xp
But this is all easier said than done and it did take a few years to finally find a friend group and even still contact is hard as everyone works and such
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i get so afraid of messaging or talking to people first, its the part i hate abt myself, i used to be so social as a kid and now i find it extremely difficult. Like i wanna dm first but part of me has no idea what to say, yknow>? like AAAAAA i wanna make more friends but its so scary for me. I'm here for ya dude, i feel ya!
I know, right? like what's wrong with me. I guess we gotta keep at it but people seem like they're mostly already established in some sort of friend group or hard to vibe with..
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What you said!!! i also ask myself what tf is wrong with me but i try to ignore that part of me. we just gotta keep at it and not give up and practice with people we meet!! My dms are always open if you ever wanna msg! Some people may be already in friend groups and some may be hard to get to know but there will always be people who are willing to talk and get to know you. Just gotta find them. I usually only find myself be able to easily talk to people and social is when im drunk at a bar LOL, cause i dont stress abt what im gonna say to them and i'm not overthinking. I literally sang a whole slipknot song with some random people, and it felt really nice!. But yeah i'm trying my hardest to reach out to people and make friends, stepping out of my comfort zone fr.
by crimmywimmy; ; Report
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I found it so much harder socalizing as an adult, it always just feels awkward and like everyone just wants to keep to themselves
I found friends through local events, I mustered it up to go alone and interact with booths/other people there best i could xp
But this is all easier said than done and it did take a few years to finally find a friend group and even still contact is hard as everyone works and such