💚🩷🦴The issue with negative blogs - lets talk about it🩷💚🦴

I've noticed that alot of people are getting upset over the fact that people keep talking about the drama in top entries, and honestly we will all have different reactions to everything it may be really annoying to have it seemingly be mentioned again and again but we are all human and will talk about things that upset us.

It can be very hard to be somewhere when there's alot of negativity and drama and everyone will learn somehow to cope with it differently, I know people can do more useful things with their time and take breaks frequently instead of complaining about the bad things that happen on this site but it's an entire site full of teenagers or people even younger sometimes.. they are probably going to complain about alot even though they shouldn't be on here.

We can't control what people say about these situations but we can still enjoy this site besides it, if you focus to much on what you don't like about people and what some people say there's a small chance you probably won't find others you'll love and like being around especially if you're a newer person to this site. 

There really is good people on here you just have to find them and interact with them more, talk about things you love in blogs, talk about the things you're passionate about. Because that's what this site is for. With some negative things being said I don't believe addressing things is a bad thing.

Gore,callout posts,ragebaiting,and more won't ever be stopped on this site most likely no matter how much moderation we get so I feel like it's only fair we can speak our opinions on it now and then and I don't feel like it's just people "feeding them attention" their just.. talking about things they want to talk about? We will always end up feeding attention to someone out there that does bad things but that doesn't mean that their consequences won't affect them when we do talk about it.

But that being said I believe alot more things like vents/rants about these topics and just vents in general should remain in bulletins more so you can connect with people that feel the same since you added people that might, it's alot more comforting to have reassurance from those you know than a bunch of people in blogs that might feel differently and it doesn't make you a target to those who do bad things.

And also personally I believe bulletins are for more personal things like those!

And usually blogs like that are completely ignored since alot of people may not understand and it's a very repetitive topic, I get this one mind aswell be repetitive too but there shouldn't be shame about talking about things other people do we just need to find others that understand and are there to talk about it with you. Nobody is perfect and not everyone can ignore things/not say anything about it.

But yeah that's basically it sorry if this is confusing 🐈🫶 I just felt like it was slightly weird saying that all people do is complain when alot of others also complain about others complaining lol

I hope everyone is having a good day or night!

- Vicky