the whole grooming hypersexual minors thing.... TW :SA,GROOMING

ive only recently started being active on here but the amount of posts/blogs ive seen about minors WHO JUST SO HAPPEN to be hypersexual getting groomed is absolutley crazy

just to break this down and make it easier to digest im gonna make it numbered points

1. No minor should be talking about hypersexuality or leaving their age or other sensitive info wide and open on the internet, that is SO SO SOOOO dangerous if you really need people to know youre underage please just say ur a minor and not disclose anything else and i feel like this is a given

2. No minor who HAS disclosed any info of the above is at fault for their grooming and i feel like that is common sense it is in no way a "what did you expect" kind of situation and turning it into that is so fucking shitty when minors post stuff online the unfortunate reality is they aren't thinking about that happening. Making it a "what did  you expect" situation is honestly the same thing as telling an SA victim who JUST SO HAPPENED to be wearing booty shorts and a crop top "well you were asking for it with that outfit!!!" its truly despicable to say and just makes you look fucking stupid

3. the adults will always be at fault as they should know how to act and shouldn't be talking to minors sexually online or to minors at all ESPECIALLY if they have issues like that and should be seeking professional help instead as there is no justification for it and whatever info left on the minors blogs, profile, ect is NOT a go ahead and never will be because behavior like that is against the law for a reason

4. this app desperately needs more moderation especially as its literally a newer version of myspace and is targeted towards scene kids and teens who wanna get as close to the true scene kid life as possible and there shouldnt be this many blogs/posts talking about this because it shouldnt be an issue to begin with

ive seen some pretty piss-poor takes on this and its truly sad to see 

please feel free to correct me on anything I'm wrong about (especially that comparison i worry that it might be a reach or maybe too harsh)