I'm having trouble establishing friendships, or really anything at all. I try reaching out and I never get a response (not much on here, I get nervous that it'll be ignored so I don't even bother). Sometimes people are 'enthusiastic' when I suggest we talk or hang out, but then they never get back. I think they may pity me.
I try to be cordial and I keep my less-than-cordial thoughts to myself, but I think they may be able to sense something wrong with me. I'm too stiff, my responses are forced, and I am too eager to talk.
I understand people have lives, I just wish I was included in them. I would like to know what reciprocation is.
I feel like I'm talking to a wall
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Hazel
Spacehey is a strange website to socialize in, even if it’s mean to socialize. I think it’s the generational form of communication.
Or tone tags. Tone tags are nice to use.
I just do the same thing I do in real life, start with a compliment. The advantage here is that you already know what their likes and dislikes are, so there’s a conversation starter
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Marblechalk
I'm sorry you feel this way :(( but im sure eventually you'll find a friend who'll want to actually talk and hang out and not just talk to you out of pity and such. I really hope everything goes well in your life!!
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