advice for those who are in love with someone who hurts them or cannot have...¿

Sometimes we fall in love with the wrong people and we know it but we don't accept it because we love them too much. It happened to me, it's not a very nice experience. You shouldn't let that person be everything your world revolves around, in the end if they leaves you it will be much more difficult to be happy again because you will feel like a part of you was torn away.

If you want to cry, do it, there's nothing wrong with it, but move forward, don't get stuck for that someone because it won't do any good. You will see them happy with someone else and you will feel bad and stuck, and that will make the situation worse. Meet more people, leave the house or distract yourself with something, but not constantly because if you leave that distraction or it disappears you will return to the same place. If you go through something like this (which I hope never happens because it really hurts) healing slowly is the best thing you can do. <3