⋆ Notes about me. (BYI)

This profile is my safe place, where I share and vent about my life. I warn about possible triggers in my vents, so no need to worry that I would by accident trigger you. I will gently ask you to not reshare my vent(!!!) bulletins on other platforms or to some people - it's for me important due to my personal safety and if you're not able to do that, please, unadd me. Same goes with my private personal information - if I told you something what others shouldn't know, don't run to the people to say what they shouldn't know. Secrets are called secrets for some reason (With 'shouldn't know' I mean about my mental health and family issues.)

As you might know, I struggle with mental health conditions, which I have (I won't share each condition I have, who knows with what I'm struggling, that knows). Because of them I sometimes can not to reply to your message or be online at all. In this case, please, don't try to spam me messages - soon or later I'll be again online and reply to you. But if you're really worried about me, in my profile are linked my social medias, which I use, where you can contact me and make sure I'm okay. 🖤

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I'm not native english speaker! So I'm sorry for any gramatical mistakes.

I'm Russian and I support peace, not wars, which are currently happening in our world. If you have already problems with me just because I'm Russian - unadd me, I have no mood to argue with russophobic idiots, who's brains are stereotyped with some bullshit.

I'm schizoid and I see world very, very differently from neurotypical people or people with different condition than schizoid personality disorder. I don't get jokes at all, so I need tone indicators for them and I'm socially awkward. I'll be only grateful for your patience, if you decided to talk with me more.
Otherwise I'm pretty empathetic and talkative (sometimes too oversharing) person, so no need to be scared of me. Free to talk to me, share your life with me, vent to me. :-)

I'm minor, SA survivor and in relationship, so please, no sexual or romantic tendencies around me. It makes me heavily uncomfortable.

I'm in general heavily uncomfortable around people who sexualize or romantize anything, so... If you're like this, please, unadd me.

I have dissociative amnesia, so I'm really sorry, if I don't remember something. 

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I'm in recovery! And I prefer to be around people, who just got into recovery or are recovering some time now. If you're actively self destructing yourself without considering recovery, please unadd me.

Even if I'm in recovery, I sometimes have relapses. I try to solve them immediately, so patience in that period of time will mean for me a lot.

If you're talking with me about SA, CSA, COCSA, please, properly trigger warn it before you're gonna talk about it with me. 

Trigger warn about death of animal.

Don't say around me things like "do (insert something) or (insert something bad what will happen if insert something won't be done)", it triggers my OCD.

If you're religious person, it's ok and I'm glad for you, just please, do not metion religion around me. Especially if you're Christian, as because I have religious trauma from Christianity.

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I don't usually block out of nowhere, but if I blocked you, I have for that a reason.

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I don't mind adults sending me friend request. If you're adult, please, don't be weirdo around me. We already talked about the sexual thing stuff before here.


(Last updated: 12/10/2024)