Picky mf(cool ppl hunting)

Im thinking again if im too picky if its an actual flaw or if most ppl just… suck? I feel like james from derry girls (a gay man in a girls catholic school) I honestly enjoy it i enjoy how much it takes from me to like someone because when i do its an intense all consuming fuckery that could last me a decade, I like the hunt tho its like collecting pokemon but yeah it can be very daunting and painfully boring i will not stop tho until i make my own assembly of cool ppl (hopefully they own cats) and im starting here!