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More life stuff? (Advice pls :'( )
wellll... i might have to move back to my old state for a job? also my partner might break up with me. i don't know. sigh. a lot of stuff has happened since i talked last, so.....
anyway, my partner said everything is basically taking a toll on them when i asked them if they still wanted to be together bc we got into an argument and ever since they had been acting upset at me. they phrased it like "yes i still want to be with you but..." and that kind of scares me bc that just means they want to leave me right??
like what do i even do? they wont talk to me and they havent been online and wont reply and now idk what to do.
we've also been dating for almost 2 months and ive known them longer than that and they still havent shown me their face which i said was like... a really big thing 4 me since my ex literally didnt show me what he looked like the whole 2 years we were together and now my partner STILL wont show me. im like kinda freaking out bc it feels like everything is just pointing 2 "they dont really like u and want to leave u".
pls pls pls if anyone has advice that would be great :'(
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Gosto-san
have you tried having a regular in-person relationship?
well ur a little late but yeah i have
by Ari / Halo; ; Report
Noble Jelly
I really hope you're trolling right now after reading that last paragraph. Assuming you two are e-dating, it is seriously concerning you two haven't had a video call or inperson meet up yet. The person messaging you could literally be anyone with two working thumbs with ambiguous motives. Having them show their face and do a video-call makes it harder for them to hide their motives.
Sorry you may have to move back to your homestate for work, but seeing as you're still young, its important to be wherever you most feel that opportunity could arise for you. Whether that be well being, financially, romantically etc.
relationships are compromises, where you need to conflict your desires with your partner's. If the long term compromise of the relationship are always putting you worse than what you can do alone, I suggest you reconsider the relationship.
well yes its online i have video called with them and heard them talk and seen basically only their eyes and its like idk why they cant just show me their face?? especially since my ex literally traumatized me with that and a whole ton of other stuff and idek theyre prob gonna break up with me anyway so
by Ari / Halo; ; Report