Hey, I know its hard and unbareable. Missing your loved one is a feeling that absolutely drowns and has lingering affects. You have every right to cry, miss him, look at his photos, and think of the good times. Its okay to even feel weak, that's normal and it's apart of grieving.
Whatever you do, don't shame yourself for having your feelings and take your time to move on. Healing and grieving are apart of each other and take a long time.
But, I want you to know, that it gets more bearable and manageable overtime. You will find people who lift you up, you will experience new emotions and love along the way. As much as it seems like the world is falling apart (which ngl it kinda is) it's not over yet and change will come as scary as it is, I promise it can be a good thing.
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Masami (スターさん)
Hey, I know its hard and unbareable. Missing your loved one is a feeling that absolutely drowns and has lingering affects. You have every right to cry, miss him, look at his photos, and think of the good times. Its okay to even feel weak, that's normal and it's apart of grieving.
Whatever you do, don't shame yourself for having your feelings and take your time to move on. Healing and grieving are apart of each other and take a long time.
But, I want you to know, that it gets more bearable and manageable overtime. You will find people who lift you up, you will experience new emotions and love along the way. As much as it seems like the world is falling apart (which ngl it kinda is) it's not over yet and change will come as scary as it is, I promise it can be a good thing.
Keep going! I believe in you! <3