3 - hunger

the poor boy is hungry to be loved, and to achieve this he invests a lot of energy in being recognised as belonging, having a place in the group, being considered and feeling important. paradoxically, he is usually solitary, silent and docile. he prefers to hide, he doesn't like being the centre of attention at all, which he avoids from time to time, but at the same time if he is not remembered, if he is not paid attention to, he suffers and feels non-existent. he doesn't want to be in the centre because it scares him and he doesn't feel equal enough, but he has an overwhelming desire to be seen, with the illusion of being discovered in his invisibility. at the same time, when he sees himself, he feels that he has something deeply inadequate, wrong or dirty inside him that makes him feel uncomfortable and ashamed.