ive been thinking about using xenos?

recently ive been really thinking about using some xenos, and it makes me a little nervous? idk if that makes sense. Im a trans man, but i dont mind using it (a neopronoun) in fact im very comfortable with it and it makes me happy to hear people remember that also remember that i use it, but this is very rare when they do. but over the last few months ive been also thinking about adding: (meow/puppy/boom)?? idk ppl dont really use it for me very often and im kinda scared theyll forget about my xenos or not still see me as a man? (for reference i wore a skirt i made once and many people believed i was either fluid/cis which i was not, i just decided to wear a skirt i made) and i think thats what's making me nervous to use them?