views on proshipping

cw/tw for mention of grooming

if you proship for the shits and giggles dni that is weird and i dont like that

if you have trauma related to proshipping (groomed, etc) and proshipping is a way you cope, i understand that. no, it doesnt necessarily excuse it but i find its a valid reason. 

wording stuff is hard i apologize

i do not support proshipping, but i understand when people go through shitty things and are unable to get help, sometimes they cope in shitty ways (ig even if you can get help it could happen idk)

i hope this didnt come across as aggressive or dismissive to proshipping being bad, i just want to state my views in this type of thing

if you dont agree with my views on this, please politely unadd me or just dont add me in the first place. i do not wish to start a conflict about this

hope i explained this thoroughly enough