we, as a society, need to stop sexualising family titles

This is my first blog where I'll be writing with proper grammar (mainly just capitalisation) because I find it hard to read long blocks of text that don't have proper grammar. :D


I went to a farm-billy city-kid mix elementary school, and most of the farm-billy kids were very unsupervised because of that "I don't give a dern!" culture they were raised in. So, most of those little kids watched a lot of porn on their tablets. They knew the words 'mommy' and 'daddy' were highly sexualised and I learned that from them as well. On my seventh birthday, I made the decision to stop calling my parents mommy and daddy because I was getting too old and it was weird now that I was starting puberty. I also knew that couples called each other 'babe' and at church I was confused why Jesus was called a babe.Β 

Everytime I meet a couple where the woman, or submissive person, was called 'baby', and the man, or dominant person, was 'daddy' (or 'mommy') I feel so deeply disgusted and I have a ferocious urge to kill them both where they stand. I'm fully aware those kinds of kinks are because of parental issues and growing up unloved by your mom or dad, but I kink shame, get the fuck out of my sight if you find insect kinky!! Even if it's normalised, I don't care! It shouldn't be!

It's hardly even explained to be insect-- it's so normalised. What are my kids gonna call me? Because of how open our culture is about sex, when I'm well and grown and married with kids and one of my children come up to me and say, "Mommy?" I'm gonna think that's weird. They're going to have to call me by my first name, I guess. This isn't a recent development, I think it was a Marylin Monroe movie but in an old movie I saw one of the characters was a woman who was a little devious and she called her older, rich boyfriend 'daddy'.Β 

Baby (girl/boy) is also a really sexualised name to call someone. "Yeah this is my baby-- I mean by offspring." Is that how it's gonna be in the future for me?

Bring back romance... kill hook-up culture... legalise nuclear bombs...


P.S. it didn't cross my mind about how sexualised step siblings are. Yeah, it's still incest if you're having sex with someone who's your sibling by marriage. And according to the Bible... well, let's just say, execution. ;)


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Gr4c13_g0r3

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i completely agree with everything u said!! this seriously needs to be talked about more cuz its disgusting >_<


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