Dear scenes help O_o

Hello everyonez i am a baby scene and i need help :3 i really need help with scene fashion.. '_' i dont know where to buy scene clothes for cheap and how i can buy scene clothes without my mom giving me trouble or not letting me :< I also need to know how to convince my mom to let me dye my hair black but she keeps saying no because "everyone will bully you for being emo" '^' But i dont care if people call me emo! thats kind of the point but moving on, i dont know everything about scene, like music and stuff! i really want to be a real scene because they are kewl but i cant :C so if any scenes could comment about where to buy cheap scene clothes, how to convince my mom to let me dye my hair black, and music recomendation, that would be really helpfulz ;_; goodbye now! XD