🌸 ⸝⸝˚₊・BYF & DNI CRITERIA

ᥫ᭡ hello everyone! this goes to everyone viewing my page before you friend me !! please follow the list of criteria if you want interact with me, please and thank you.

BEFORE YOU FOLLOW/FRIEND

• add your age in your bio or about me. i am 20 (updated) and don't want to interact with minors younger than 13. with that being said, i don't want any of us getting in trouble.

• i am black and use she/they pronouns. i don't take it lightly to be misgendered. if i have to correct you, don't be offended.

• if you know me irl that's cool, i don't mind. just don't act fake online and expect me to be kind towards you if it's "just a joke" when it isn't to me at all. i'm a sensitive person and if you can't handle that, you're not the right person.

• feel free to soft-block me if my interests do not align with yours, it's okay. i will not take it personally but if we're mutuals and you decide that you don't want to interact with me, just tell me beforehand then block or unfriend me.

• i do flirt and make nsfw comments towards people my age. if you're a minor and are saying inappropriate things to me, you will be getting BLOCKED.

• i use tone indicators sometimes to let people know what my mood is. now i don't expect you guys to do the same because not everyone is comfortable with using them. however, if you are and don't mind using them i would appreciate that you use them because it is difficult if someone is being sarcastic or serious through text that it stresses me out.

• please politely correct me on things i am not educated on because there are many things out there that i am ignorant about. it would mean a lot to not make the same mistakes and improve. i'll do my best to be open-minded and civil if as long as you are.

DO INTERACT 

• interested in any of my interests such as writing, musical theatres, anime, korean pop, japanese pop, japanese rock, manga, cartoons, melanie martinez, cute indie games, puzzles, y2k aesthetics, grunge & cottagecore, young adult books, cute queer or lgbtq shows/stories

• if you want to be mutual within my age range, just send a request

• fandoms im in: fnaf, stranger things, assassination, a series of unfortunate events, the last of us, beacon pines, gravity falls, total drama, rwrb, resident evil, little nightmares, animal crossing, stardew valley

DO NOT INTERACT

fit basic dni criteria (racists, lgbtq+phobic, abelist, etc) - don't lie about it either, i will find out one way or another. it's better to come clean so i can block you and get things over with.

support ai 'art' - i do not tolerate art that has already been out and posted with lots of hard work put into it to be put into a generator and transformed into "new art" made from words alone without giving proper credit to artists.

saying slurs you cannot reclaim including medical terms - if you aren't part of the lgbtq community, aren't a certain race, not medically diagnose, etc: refrain from using slurs that you cannot reclaim/use. For example, because I'm black I can use the n slur or make any time of racist jokes towards myself or my black friends but I cannot say slurs against the Asian or Hispanic community because i am neither. I have adhd and dyslexia, i can call myself the r word because it's been used against people like me; the same goes for me calling myself the f slur because im part of it.

shame people for age regressing (cgl) - if some of you don't know, it's a form of coping mechanism. a lot don't know that it's also a form of self-help and type of therapy. when people regress, it gives them a sense of security and that they're cared for.

if you know me irl, do not use my dead name. it makes me uncomfortable, it disrespects me. keep personal shit of me to yourself and not on here, i'll decide when to expose and share things about me, myself.

into gore, horror, or and body horror that involves blood and lots of disfigurement. I don't mind if you like horror games, I do as well but the minute you involve it with reality, please no.

don't have pronouns in your bio and expect people to know what to refer to you. you cannot get mad at me or feel disrespected for not referring to your pronouns if you do not have any in your bio or anywhere on your page all because you didn't want to or wanted others to "guess".

using aave if you're not black. ex: "he ain't no op", "that jawn is kit," "trippin," - those are examples of african american vernacular english (aave). it originates from african american and black cultures and has become "well known" or in this case, more modernized today. with all due respect, if you're not black, please try and keep aave out of your vocabulary or keep it a minimum please. blaccents and aave are considered disrespectful to the african american and black communities especially when you're not black.

pro-shippers (problematic shippers) - the name speaks for itself