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🪐 MALE SEXUAL ASSAULT AWARENESS 🪐

It's already well known by now that SA against men is not taken seriously at all. I am living proof of that.

I've been SA'd more times than I can count throughout my entire life, to the point where I've even been full on r*ped and most of the incident went unpunished.


Anyone can be SA'd. Women, men, children, adults, ANYONE.

Anyone can commit SA on someone else. Women, men, children, adults, ANYONE.




The Glamourization of Male SA in Media


There have been countless examples of TV shows and movies romanticizing SA against men. And it's never shown as a big deal. When men are being actively SA'd in the media, it's like it's not seen as real SA.


Examples I've found (TW):

Debbie (Shameless) - >> Explanation

Allison (Umbrella Academy) - >> Explanation

Daphne (Bridgerton) - >> Explanation

Etc...

If the roles were reversed in any of these examples, more people would be freaking out instead of "shipping them". The amount of men (me included) who lost their virginity at a very young age to older people is insane. Most of us don't even realize it's SA until way later in life.


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⦻ POROX ⦻

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It’s comforting to know I’m not alone, thanks for making this, I needed to know there’s actually people who care about stuff like this. I’m sorry about what happened though.


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⦻ POROX ⦻

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It’s comforting to know I’m not alone, thanks for making this, I needed to know there’s actually people who care about stuff like this. I’m sorry about what happened though.


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brainsdotio

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this. anyone can be sa'd, and it's always a big deal, no matter what happened. society is disgusting, but those of us who aren't should be willing to support each other through our dark times. thank you for bringing awareness to this.


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Anon

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ilysm ty for posting this
im sick of sexual assault only mattering when it happens to women
YES its a problem, but it is for men too !!
anyone of any age can have it happen and its important to support all victims regardless on who they are


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vivian

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I am a girl but YES. I completely agree, people do not take it seriously, when they should, as you stated EVERYONE can get SA’d and EVERYONE can SA. thank you.


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Chapi666

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A small advance is that people are realizing this and are giving it relevance, hopefully in some not-so-distant future they will be given the respect and justice that the male victims of SA deserve.
Or better yet, THAT THERE ARE NO MORE VISCTIMS OF SA


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•FranWSea•

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en serio en serio gracias por subir esto, aunque sea corto da entender todo lo que puede pasar cualquier personas Y EN SERIO ODIO A LA GENTE QUE VE COMO TEMA DE RISA EL ABUSO A HOMBRES Y DICEN QUE LAS MUJERES SUFREN MÁS, amo tu blog!!


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jesse

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honestly, thank u for posting this. it's vry hard for me to talk about my abuse in fear of being seen as not a real man and being told off, so this is really helpful to me, it means a lot. I'm sorry about what happened to you, i know how damaging and hurtful it is. for me, personally, I'll never be the same ever again.


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InADaze

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Thank you so much for posting this! I have been sexually assaulted twice and we aren't taken very seriously as the people who assaulted me got away with no punishment. I am so sorry that those awful things happened to you.


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Sat00me

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It's horrible to think that there are still people who SUPPORT this kind of thing, like comshippers

Only those who have experienced this type of abuse know how it hurts and how it is something that will last a lifetime... I'm sorry my angel, no one deserves to go through this... I've never suffered any s**ual abuse but I've suffered harassment

You are not alone in this, several people are here to help you... your friends, family, etc.

and if you don't have anyone... I'll also offer to listen to you if you need it, I know, it's a bit strange considering we're strangers... but I want to help in some way if i can ε(´。•᎑•`)っ 💕


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you mean proshippers??

by nerdyraccoon; ; Report

Sim sim, eles mesmo. mtos deles contribuem pra romantização desse tipo de coisa na internet ://

by Sat00me; ; Report

Pse, mas pfv não fica colocando a culpa em comshippers pq tem mta chance de vc mesmo ser comshipper e não saber °_°

by nerdyraccoon; ; Report

QUEE???!!!( ˶°ㅁ°) !!

by Sat00me; ; Report

mtos ships que são canon como Lumity, Hordak x Entrapta, Duolingo x Hooty, são todos comships. Explicação: Ships como não-humano x humano (Luz é humana e Amity é uma bruxa, a mesma dinâmica com Hordak e Entrapta), ships com personagens de universos diferentes (Isso se chama cross ship mas cai embaixo do guarda-chuva comship), ships complexos em geral são comships e tem mt anti que fala "ah comshippers são estranhos" mas na vdd eles tbm são comshippers... Espero que não fique mto confuso

by nerdyraccoon; ; Report

Catradora msm é um proship, sendo um ship abusivo. Tem mta gente que acha que não é pq a Catra é traumatizada e elas se amam mas mesmo com esses pontos ela ainda abusou MUITO da Adora.

by nerdyraccoon; ; Report

Entendo.. Ainda bem que nunca shippei catradora (ᵕ—ᴗ—) e no caso dos comships.. não tenho problemas com eles exceto quando envolvem literalmente um animal, não um furry. realmente um animal

Mas infelizmente isso n acontece somente com shipps, já vi alguns casos na indústria cinematográfica e televisa que romantizam o abuso s**ual

Enfim, é uma droga "( – ⌓ – )

by Sat00me; ; Report

𝐻𝒜𝐼𝐿𝐸𝒴 𝒢𝐿𝒪𝒪𝑀𝐼𝐸

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I'm so sorry about the horrible people that have done this to you.️ I'm glad you're speaking out about this topic because not enough people do.


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wampirecolor

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SA to anyone should be taken seriously. three girls kept touching my (M.13) ass in school like 2 years ago and i didnt say anything cuz i was embarrassed

NORMALISE ASKING PEOPLE FOR HEP AS A GUY!!!!!


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Insomniac ⁠˘⁠ ⁠o⁠ ⁠˘

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I wish more people took SA agaisnt men more seriously


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azur3

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Thx for this, im a afab person n this is one of the things that i think the most everyday


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keiko

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thank you for calling attention to this, it hurts as a genderfluid person (currently masculine) to have been SA'd twice without people caring, its AWFUL that people think only women can get SA'd..


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venny X3

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as a man who has experienced SA on multiple occasions since i was 8, thank you


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willowmoth

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as a trangender male i dont know if i count but thank you. unfortuantly i have had this happen to me.


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So sorry for u, of course you matter and you didn't deserve that

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tigertorment

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many people don’t know that people besides women experience sa. yes, there is a statistic saying 1 in 3 women experience sexual abuse or sexual assault at least once in their life, however for men this statistic is 1 in 6, and for children it’s 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys. compared to the statistics of a common illness, appendicitis, those are very large numbers. 1 in 13 people get appendicitis, and compare that to the statistic for how many men experience sexual abuse or sexual assault, less people have appendicitis than men who experience sa. this goes to show anyone can experience sa. although sa is more common for women, it’s just slightly less common for men, but it’s still highly possible if compared to a very common illness.


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I HAVE SEEN PEOPLE UNIRONICALLY SAY YOU CAN NOT GET SA'D AS A MAN...... BECOUSE ALL MEN LIKE SEX OR SMH!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!!??!?!

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Adrax

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Thank you for talking about this, it is really necessary and people should be aware. I'm sorry you had to go through all that...


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