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so. let's start with saying that I have social anxiety and clinical depression (and autism!)
I
know this person for almost 9 years now, and just in the past year, she
changed a lot with her personality. We used to be best buddies and hang
out every saturday, but now she doesn't ask me to hang out anymore and
when I ask her she either has to study or she already made plans with
someone else. This is totally fine, because high school students have
more than one friend and have to study.
But, when we are on the bus
on our way to school, she constantly talks to me about "what an amazing
night she had with her friends" and how I should come along. I told her
multiple times how I'm uncomfortable with 1. hanging out with people I
don't know, and 2. hanging out with someone 8-10 years older than me and
her.
When she calls me or sends me a vocal message, she talks to me
like she's always annoyed and she always starts with something like "if u
care enough about me" or something like that :(
tbh its making me
hate her, but I also think that since she was there for me when i
almost kms I shouldn't, and that im just an arrogant bitch :(
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Kier
yk, i dont have much to say about this.. but you have to seek for another friends, but that doesn't mean u should dump her or anything DX! incase u need someone to talk too, u can talk to your another friends! but u have to make sure that was the right person, in terms of interest or age, so you can have a conversation that you know where's that gonna lead / u can understand!
sorry if u dont get what this thing that i write, but i tried my best T___T
thank you for the advice
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♥ Cadyღ
This is a very complicated situation :( it's valid if she's distant and kinda rude to you maybe a week or two, but if it becomes a habit, then she's not acting as a friend towards you. I think you should talk to her about these things that upset you, but respectfully and in a calm way. Hopefully she'll understand
ill try to talk to her :') thanks for the advice :]
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of course bestie<3<3 good luck
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