BYI+DNI LIST

OKK so this is my first time making one of these so BARE W/ ME PLS! this can and will b updated!!✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*

BYI (before u interact):

I BLOCK FREELY!!!

interact with care at all times!!

i have adhd, and it can be rlly difficult for me to focus sometimes, i might not notice something important you sent!! im also super sensitive so please be nice 2 mee. i make a lot of suggestive jokes, plz lmk if i make u uncomfortable!! dont jst. not say anything because u dont wanna hurt my feelings or lichrally any other reason. UHH plzdont joke flirt unless i say its ok. i used to do it a lot but now i have a partner so HLEP

i have a lot of anxiety, and i ask for clarification a lot!! im really sorry if that annoys u, im really just trying to understand properly :] id like to think that im. nice? idk i was way worse b4..sweats. sometimes i send a lot of things at once, and i totally understand that it might be overwhelming!! as much as i love when people interact with everything i have to say, i wanna ensure the comfort of other people !! if i add something to a message i really wanted you to reply to, and thats the ONLY thing you acknowledge, im gonna notice!! u cant hide from me.. heh.. im just too good. (i notice a lot of small things like that because of past experiences :] doesnt mean ill notice everything though!!)

If i randomly unadd you, it’s most likely because our energy didn’t match!! please don’t take it personally, i struggle talking to people if we don’t text similarly :] OR it could be because you did something that was in my dni list!! another reason could be that we simply didn’t talk enough!! also i completely understand if you’re a busy person and therefore, are a slow replier- but if you’re a slow replier its pretty likely i might unfriend you 😭

I'm veeerryyyy particular about who I add on here, so if u friend me and then never hear back from me, again, don't take it personally!! This could be for a few reasons, I'm gonna skip the ones I listed in the paragraph above. Maybe the way you spoke about some things put me off, maybe I could tell our energy wouldn't match with profile alone (i know they say don't judge a book by its cover, but spacehey layouts and text boxes are for expressing yourself), we don't share enough interests, etc. im like a picky eater but for friending

DNI (do not interact):

-basic dni criteria

- 19+

-comshippers (excluding lightshippers)/proshippers/darkshippers/antishippers/ any variation of the problematic shippers !

-therian haters, furry haters

-vox haters./hj, he's brought me so much joy so if u don't like him.. fair, but keep me out of it!!

-toxic valentino fans (or haters becuz some of u guys r....)

-DRY TEXTERS. PLS STAY AWAY FROM ME <//3 (unless ik u irl)

-lolicons/shotacons.

-people who get back with their ex without giving themself ANY time to

 actually reflect on the problems there were, and then breaking up again for that reason.

-disregards boundaries, or like.. says shit like "um it was jst a joke but ok.." ermm! get

 that checked out bbg </3

 -if u smoke/vape any variation of that... sorry not sorry, get out !! (or just. if u do drugs in general. if u joke abt doing crack, weed, i do not care- but if u ACTUALLY do... dni please !!) ((not talking about prescriptions btw))

-brainrot users/j (its annoying but go off i guess. as long as u arent being srs)

-doesn't match my energy ! 

-friend collectors..

-gore accs.. oh and music accs

-ppl who says slurs because they "have the pass🤡"

-people who start being freaky before i say its ok (at least towards me specifically, fictional characters? go off i guess!!)

-similar to the last one but people who give strangers backshots in roblox..? please get out.. 

THAT'S IT 4 NOWW!!