I dont think i enjoy being friends with some of my friends (IRL) anymore.

So i have a question is it normal to hate having friends? Like because i like talking to them and most of them are good people its just so many of my friends have drama and i dont want anything to do with it. But everytime something happens everyone comes a tells me and i hate it because i genuinely dont want to know neither do i care. Plus if i bring anything someone has said to me up someone gets pissed at me and i dont understand why. I dont know but I'm starting to hate having friends just because of all of this stuff. Just for the record if people want/need to talk about their problems i will listen but i want the option to say no sometimes. sometimes I have my own problems to deal with and i dont want to have the anxiety of knowing some info about a problem and then having something happen and i get blamed for it or something. I genuinely cant be fucked with this stuff anymore. I'm just getting really sick of it at this point and i dont know what to do.