🎀 // Boundaries / DNI Criteria !

hihi!!

this is very basic, just to go over my boundaries along with a dni criteria + extra things to know before you interact with me.

byi: I have social anxiety, along with that I am in general a very shy person. I want to talk with others, but I pysically can't bring myself to without feeling like an annoyance, so if you want to interact with me, please don't be scared to message. if I'm online, I should respond relativy quickly. as I get more comfortable with others, I will be able to start conversations better and more frequently. I need tone tags (though I often forget to use them and I apologize, just overall never take anything I say seriously unless it's a serious thing). I make kms jokes a lot (I'm trying to stop and get better at not). If you're uncomfortable with that, PLEASE TELL ME!! I will do my best to respect it, but that's also how I cope so sometimes I may forget, and I deeply apologize for it if I make that mistake in the future. please be careful of certain things said, I'm not open about most things to aviod feeling like a burden, but I do genuinely struggle with a lot of things and do take some things to heart no matter how obvious of a joke it may be. It's not your fault, I'm very difficult to like and even harder to talk to, and I do not hold you accountable for anything you say that may worsen me, because I refuse to acknowledge and speak of my struggles.

dni: for comfortability, I'd prefer to not talking to people above 18 or 19, escipally men. Though if you genuinely for some reason really want to talk to me, I won't do anything to stop you, just don't be creepy. however, if you're homophobic, racist, sexist, etc. literally anything on the basic dni criteria, do not talk to me. Also dni if your a fujoshi or fetishizer of any kind I don't want you freaks interactimg with me it's uncomfortable. (only applies to people who ACTUALLY fetishize mlm/wlw couples btw, idc if you read bl/gl, I only have a problem when you fetishize the material.) I don't exactly enforce a dni criteria, but I am severely uncomfortable interacting with any of the stated people above (which I hope can only be a small percent of people)

boundaries: perhaps the most important part. do not make any wierd/sexual jokes as those make me very uncomfortable. most important one, DO NOT TALK ABOUT EDS AND SH TO ME. I have a personal history with them and am very uncomfortable with the discussion (if you start talking about it, I will not respond until the topic is changed.) even as a vent.

sorry for typos, I tried to make it all correct but I'm not proofreading this shit it's way too long.