am i destined to forever hate myself? i keep telling myself maybe one day everything will be ok and i’ll love myself but its been this way for so long and i want to love myself for him because he deserves someone who is ok with themself but i dont know how to love myself. i feel like im too much and everything will end because of course it will, of course he’ll get tired of me and leave. i dont know i sound so dramatic
sorry to anyone who’s reading this this app is like a journal.
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bkenny
To love somebody else, you have to love yourself. You already know that. However, if you're struggling to love yourself while loving somebody else, let that person love you. When they express their affection for you, you can spindle it into good things about yourself and then eventually love yourself. The last thing you want to do here is sit and worry and be gloomy about the future - that's how bad things come to fruition. When you think the future is bad, you let the bad take over the future. But trust me, if you can love somebody else, you can love yourself. You just have to find the right place to put that love, and I'm sure your partner would be more than happy to help. If they really love you, they'll definitely want to help.
If they can love you, you can love yourself. Hope you get better.
- bkenny