im so fucking scared about my fist job

Im 19 years old and Im a business administration student, I have never had the need to have a job but lately I feel like starting to be a little more financially independent from my mom

Yall know, like "heyo mum can I have 15 dollars to go out?" or "please please buy me that shirt I loved it" I mean, I'm an only child and I've always been a little bit spoiled, but I think I'm too old for that shit now

I really want to get things like tattoos or piercings that she would never pay for me, but more importantly than that, I would really love to develop financial intelligence before I start my major internships and be able to contribute money to my house because it would just feel good to contribute to it

Im afraid and maybe it is normal for me to be, since I was a little girl I have seen how the vast majority of adults are unhappy in their work and I am starting to notice how my friends stop having a good portion of time so that they cannot be always together because they also start to have their own jobs

As potential young adults who are using this stuff to remember the myspace era or as people who are fans of the vibes of those times like me, what could you recommend or advise me? What anecdotes, good and bad, do you have from your first jobs to tell me?


I hear

xoxo, veronica from latin america.


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Gege

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I got no advice but good luck!!!


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Keep moving forward, you may be afraid to even go to work, but as you grow up and get older you will remember these situations and laugh because it was just a moment that was temporary, but plan ahead and have a savings system. efficient, it's good to have some money saved just in case, greetings from Panama <⁠(⁠ ̄⁠︢⁠ ̄⁠)⁠>


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Awww gracias, saludos <33

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Micky

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Hey, I know this might not be a lot of help but, it's nice to start something being positive, that helped me a lot, it's not easy to enter a new phase of your life, I mean, i cried a bit when I enter to Uni I couldn't believe that I had to be with people of different ages and for worse, mean people i'm an architecture student and this major is really toxic but at this moment that's not a thing to worry anymore, if there's something that calms you, do it, if you want to cry is fine too, I hope that your first fay is all good, saludos desde Bolivia <3


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tus palabras son muy alentadoras para mΓ­, muchas gracias
saludos desde Venezuela <3

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