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MY DNI LIST [Do Not Interact]
and various other info/warnings
- 20+,
- pedos, murderers, TERFs, yk the basic criteria
- proshippers, comshippers that are basically just proshippers, aka anyone who defends and/or encourages pedo or illegal relationship stuff (psychologically, fiction does affect reality in many ways, if you think that and watch abuse material you might have a p-rn addiction or unhealed trauma and may benefit from a psychologist)*
- anyone with a ton of real gore or sexual stuff on their profile
- i personally disagree with the idea of endogenic DID systems, but endogenic plurality/multiplicity is fine
- ppl w/ any paraphillias that harm others (violence, pain, harm paras, age related paras, incest paras, zoos, anything involving non-consenting parties, cnc etc etc) pls go to therapy
- people who are pro-c ^^
- people that identify as "AAM" and "MAP" (pls go to therapy)
- people who are transID other than transgender because there are legit so many problems with that and i cannot go in depth here*
- anyone far/extremist right wing
- ppl in shed-twt, babybluetwt, proana etc etc.
- anyone who frequently talks about p-rn without warning/hiding it from ppl who don't wanna see (especially if its h-rdcore and in a positive manner)
- if you plan on venting unprompted, or repeatedly have breakdowns in my dms
Interacting Is Okay
aka my hot takes on internet discourse
- mspec lesbians r chill with me
- *if ur a recovering paraphilliac or recovering proshipper who became that way in childhood u are alright but ur on THIN ICE PAL i better not see anything weird
- *transID is understandable under certain circumstances (like having disorders and such) but should not be treated like a persons genuine full real bodily identity and moreso like a symptom of their disorder
- personality disorders r safe here
if we friend and you end up crossing my boundaries i'll just block, usually i'll just block if i don't want to interact, so it'll be fine
*also im very much for p-rn harm reduction, for s-x ed, against human trafficking and against harmful p-rn regardless of "fiction" or reality so just BEWARE that i have very strong opinions on it and that it brings up strong feelings
*i sensor a lot of s-xual words for my own sake, i'm not a "prude" i'm just a little silly in the brain sometimes
*thinking or hearing of abuse makes me sick
buh bye! kachow
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Reuben
Hey!! You sent me a friend request a while ago and I just want to make sure I understand everything on your DNI list before i accept ^^
For the endogenic stuff, i don't have DID nor am i part of a system, and I'm also not educated on the subject, so I don't really see it as my place to speak on it or form my own opinions on the matter unless someone explicitly asks me to for activism purposes or anything similar. I just want to check with you are comfortable being friends with someone with similar ideas to mine in this respect.
Also, it is my first time seeing the term "pro-c," so some clarification on that would be nice, or just another term to look into.
The TransID thing also confuses me. I don't know what else you would be referring to other than transgender. (now that im typing, im remembering that there is RTCA, which i dont agree with, but is there anythong else?)
Finally, on the topic of mspec lesbians, im not too fond of people identifying as lesbian if they are attracted to trans men or a trans man identifying as a lesbian, as that is the one gender excluded in the lesbian sexuality and it's kind of invalidating the fact that they are actually real men, and their assigned gender at birth or sex has nothing to do with their current gender, and the same goes for trans women being gay or gay people being attracted to trans women.
I also noticed you saying something about AFAB non binary people, and im wondering if you see a difference between AFAB nonbinary people and AFAB nonbinary people.
Jesus Fuck this is probably the longest comment to exist, but Im hoping it brings you comfort that im being so thorough in making sure our values align before accepting your request. I think it would be a lot easier to not follow through with a friendship if we dont even know eachother yet, rather than ending the friendship down the line when we've possibly gotten closer or whatever if that makes sense.
hii!! the endo thing is just there as like a disclaimer for ppl who identify as endo, i actually dont care a ton whether ppl identify as it
pro-c means pro contact (so like acting on paraphillias)
transID is stuff like RTCA and like identifying as physically disabled despite not being physically disabled, theres lots of other stuff so yeah
mspec lesbians thing is just based on my own experience, my irl lesbian friends r fine with it and ive met a couple mspec lesbians and theyre not ill intented, they usually have their own reasons and its personal so thats just my stance on it, im p neutral, if someone disagrees thats fine its not rlly my place to speak on it
as for AFAB enby people, i just know some people still identify as lesbian bc they had experiences while being AFAB and its the label they find comfort in, etc etc, so no i dont see a difference in them rlly, its moreso about the intent and i dont usually see AMAB enbies identifying as lesbian because the reason AFAB enby ppl identify as lesbian is personal and based on, at one point in time, experiencing life as a woman
but again, dont RLLY care that much, not my place to speak on it
anyhow thanks for the questions! :P
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