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this whole situation is pretty confusing but, this is really friendship advice.
so, my boyfriend and I started dating recently. however, one of my closet "friend" confessed to him. out of the blue, he rejected her of course. But at the same time, I still feel conflicted about this.
1. we have been friends for 2+ years now, i met her at school.
2. she helped me get with him.
3. shes been acting very strange to get the validation of my boyfriend, before we were dating but i think i should still add that.
4. she confessed while knowing were together.
she told me herself, in the GC were in with my other friend -- so casually too????
A lot of my friends say I should drop her, since thats what 1 of them did. but still, im not entirely sure because i have to see her over the summer for this camp im going to and we have to share the same room for this overnight trip.
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Lillllllllllllllllllllith
That is like... the biggest dick move you can make - I can't even understand what the logic was behind her decision?
ElChicoNeo!
Ask her why she did it, it sounds like there's something else behind it because~ well~ that's sooooo sudden, who knows~ maybe it's just a bad joke
chickennuggie
try talking to her about it in a non-confrontational way. it is very strange that she helped you get with him yet is also flirting with him, maybe she just isn't understanding that boundary yet (essentially, she hasn't fully realized that you two are actually partners & it is no longer appropriate for her to flirt with him). if she continues, then you might have to take some steps away from her. idk, i hope it goes well.