bf problems

my bf doesnt understand me and i dont mean that in a cringe way. i jus mean thst he doesnt know me well enough to fully understand how im going to process how i am being treated and how i process his behaviour surrounding me. like if he sees me upset and he says im gonna come be w u tn that im going to expect him too actually do that or im going to be may i say rightfully, upset. and that he cant jus say something and then not do it. but he be doin that shi all the time fr but im lowkey tired of it i need him to realize that specifically im realy weird about how i plan things out and that if im anticipating him ciming he needs to actually come or else is throws off my whole game the whole day throws off my entire perspective for the day. neways tho its whatever