L That's basic psychology bro, but I'll give you a simple 'tutorial' and later mention the details(Because I am ultra extroverted fr).
Simply have conversations and spend time with people. That's it.That's how you make friends.
Obviously you'll need to have hobbies, interests, etc. also known as have a life so you can talk about it and discuss topics. In a conversation, don't turn shit into an interview, that's boring as shit. A person tells you something about their day/life, say your opinion about it and then tell your experience with it. Like something about the person, such as, an accessory they have? Compliment them. They'll be flattered and remember something about you.
Something that many people ignore and ruin everything is rationality. Be rational. Just because you argued with that one friend does not mean the relationship/connection is over. Once your anger has calmed down, go and talk to them. Explain how you felt and why you behaved in that specific way, and then apologize. If they accept your apology and apologize back, that's good. If they don't, their loss.
okok tutorial time, coming through&adapted by me, from my one popular friend.. so here we'll be talking at online. some steps work irl but others don't rly match.
so, step 1: find your target, learn a little abt them, talk to some of their friends or look thru their profile a bit.
step 2: send a friend request and hope they accept
step 3: say hi, try and match their vibe kinda. mention something you're doing/have done recently. step the fourth: other person mentions something. respond, add at little bit of your own stuff, ask them a question at least somewhat related to the convo.
step numero Cinco: they respond to your question. make a comment about their answer, giving them a stepping off for their next message.
step roku: they ask a question. answer, not just straight up but add a little pizazz. instead of "yeah, dinner was good." say "yeah, dinner was good. idk why but I just love that table bread reastraunts give you, yk?" give the other person something to work with.
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Michael
L That's basic psychology bro, but I'll give you a simple 'tutorial' and later mention the details(Because I am ultra extroverted fr).
Simply have conversations and spend time with people. That's it.That's how you make friends.
Obviously you'll need to have hobbies, interests, etc. also known as have a life so you can talk about it and discuss topics.
In a conversation, don't turn shit into an interview, that's boring as shit. A person tells you something about their day/life, say your opinion about it and then tell your experience with it.
Like something about the person, such as, an accessory they have? Compliment them. They'll be flattered and remember something about you.
Something that many people ignore and ruin everything is rationality. Be rational. Just because you argued with that one friend does not mean the relationship/connection is over. Once your anger has calmed down, go and talk to them. Explain how you felt and why you behaved in that specific way, and then apologize. If they accept your apology and apologize back, that's good. If they don't, their loss.
Ashley Alias
okok tutorial time, coming through&adapted by me, from my one popular friend.. so here we'll be talking at online. some steps work irl but others don't rly match.
so, step 1: find your target, learn a little abt them, talk to some of their friends or look thru their profile a bit.
step 2: send a friend request and hope they accept
step 3: say hi, try and match their vibe kinda. mention something you're doing/have done recently.
step the fourth: other person mentions something. respond, add at little bit of your own stuff, ask them a question at least somewhat related to the convo.
step numero Cinco: they respond to your question. make a comment about their answer, giving them a stepping off for their next message.
step roku: they ask a question. answer, not just straight up but add a little pizazz. instead of "yeah, dinner was good." say "yeah, dinner was good. idk why but I just love that table bread reastraunts give you, yk?" give the other person something to work with.
9: do steps 3-8 as needed
hope this helps
oh right most importantly be nice and don't be too weird. nobody likes a hater or a creep.
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