Faking queerness

I see so much people just tryna get into the queer aesthetic, its more obvious between children, like in gacha community where their Oc which represents themselves are lesbian or gay while claiming to be straight irl. But the queerbaiting between adults is less noticable. They usually tend to make their whole personality about being queer, like only talking about queerness irl and on the internet, they often create and cry about small issues like a straight woman or man going into a gay bar, these people also create stereotypes and give queerness a look and if you dont fit in then you arent queer or aren't straight.