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is there any way to reconnect w a friend you've hurted ??
soo there's this girl that was my best friend for 2 years, but during school holidays we had an online arguement shit happen and it was so stupid but it made us suddenly stop talking at school and everything
it's been several months but now that i see her alone at school while i'm here having other friends, it js made me feel so guilty even tho she's the one that hurted me first and made me have a panic attack
godd i think abt her sm so hope there's some advice or ppl that had similiar experiences happen
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SweetTart
Similar thing happened to me just this march, me and my best friend which also happens to be my roommate, got into a cold war and we just stopped talking for the whole month. It was actually our mutual friend who fixed our friendship (We're a 4 people friend group) when he forced me to go eat dinner with my him and my best friend and we talked as if we didn't have that cold war and before we go back to our dorm, we apologized to each other and talked about how childish and shallow the reason was as to why we fought. That’s also the reason why I made a SpaceHey account because I was so anxious and I was overthinking a lot about her and why we fought and I needed a space where I can just yap.
So I guess based on my experience, why don't you try and ask her to eat with you as like the first topic and when you try to talk to her, talk as if you’ve never fought as if you guys are friends. (I find this to be the "not so awkward" way of talking again). and if she reciprocated your vibes and starts talking to you the same way and it feels like she’s comfortable with you, thats when you start to tell her about what you truly feel, that you feel guilty and want to be friends with them again. And if they didn't reciprocate your vibe and it seems like they don't want you anymore then that's your closure and sign to move on.
I know how the tension between you two is extremely uncomfortable and stressful and it takes up so much of your mental energy but you know that you could fix this by just having the chance to talk with them again.
I hope this kinda helps （＾ω＾）