Minecraft and Games

Lately, I've been playing a lot of Minecraft with my boyfriend and I wanna make some new friends who also play. While the sever that he, his friends and I use is private, if someone else has a server and is willing to let me join I would be beyond grateful! I do play modded but the only mod pack that I have downloaded is Valhelsia 3, but I also still love vanilla Minecraft so I'm pretty much down for anything!