so people have a screenshot of me being transphobic, if you haven't seen it, I'll show the pic if you haven't seen it already.
so I want to make a PROPER apology and explain why I said this.
EXPLANATION:
when I was in school, it was a very homophobic community, so on my bus there was many people screaming slurs (no, its not okay because they say it) it influenced me and I wanted 2 seem cool, but obvi, it's rlly not... and I didn't rlly know it was as bad and offensive as the f slur, so I used it, and if it was I thought ppl would brush it off since I'm genderfluid, but genderfluid cant use it, I now know :'| and my sister DID lie Abt me being trans because she wanted to make sure ppl didn't hate me, but I used to be trans, and she knew that so she said I was still trans, but I am not. my sister did that to like "defend me", but it was not a good idea, ik.
I used to be homo/transphobic, but it was because of 1) the environment I was in 2) breakup (yes it was aa lesbian one) 3) getting death threats from someone lesbian and non binary. but that does NOT excuse my behavior.
APOLOGY:
I'm very sorry 4 what I did. I know its wrong, and please believe me I'm not transphobic, I wasnt rlly thinking at that time, and it came out like word vomit, but again, its no excuse. I PROMISE to do better, and I'm especially sorry to Zai 4 saying that 2 her.
I'm so sorry this is short, its rlly late, I'll write more maybe.
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bea
genderfluid is under the trans "umbrella", and therefore is considered a trans identity. some people tend to be funny about genderfluid people using the slur, though it does not give anyone the right to use slurs to insult etc bc using slurs in a negative and insulting way regardless of if you can reclaim it or not kinda defeats the purpose I would say
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͙۪˚roro˚ ͙۪◌ (miwbtmy) 🍉
oh i see!! i had u unfriended bcs i saw that comment n' stuff but this is genuinely a good apology and i appreciate how much you seem to have changed 4 the better :3
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polaris!
genderfluid is under the trans umbrella but slurs are still not okay to use regardless. it's nice to see that you recognized your mistake and apologized though!!
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xXkf100Xx
3 days ago
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huh
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<3
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ℰ𝒹𝓌𝒶𝓇𝒹 𝒞𝓊𝓁𝓁ℯ𝓃
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nnooo!!! PWEASE! ! ! ! ! ! !! !
by 🥩 jizzl ★ ᑐᒋᐃmᐃᐁᔑ 🍉 (coquette)🎎 (҂ `з´) ︻╦̵̵̿╤── 🎀; ; Report
polkaolpka
sounds like you've done a lot of reflecting, good job man great to see others recognizing their faults (something not many people in this world are able to do)
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$unayn
I'm so glad you recognized your mistakes and moved on! It shows you want to change/did change as a person
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sP1dERS
This is very mature of you! Great job for being responsible, hope you can get out of that toxic mindset :)
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l0st_silv3r
dont worry, op, you’re trans (genderfluid is under the trans umbrella), you can say it.
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cutesweetnerd8
i thought genderfluid ppl were tranz 2
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they are, genderfluid people are under the non-binary umbrella, and ofc, the non-binary umbrella is under the trans umbrella!
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❦IheartL❦
Death threats from someone "lesbian" and "non binary"? Of course they(she?) were(or is it was?) going to be so stupid...
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may u elaborate this statement please?
by Booblover200(shoe); ; Report
Someone told me non binary is the one who doesn't identifies as male nor female, and, as far as I know, lesbians are females who feel interested in other females. How can someone be both?
by ❦IheartL❦; ; Report
Well lesbian is considered non man loving non man (i think or that might be sapphic?)
by Booblover200(shoe); ; Report
I thought you were right... But I just searched it on Google and it says "women" so idk who to trust (?
by ❦IheartL❦; ; Report
It's "human female" huh... But sapphic also works for lesbianism or just women attracted to women, like bi or pan.
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Thegoodolddays
LMAO "tranny" is not a slur and people are stupid as fuck for screenshotting that X'D
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lol I've heard a few ppl on here say its a slur, but a lot of ppl irl and on TikTok (including transgenders) said it wasn't and its okay 2 say it
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two cis people saying tranny isnt a slur skull emoji
by FN Scar-H; ; Report
tranny is a slur what r u on broskili
by sage !! 🛹; ; Report
Tranny isn't a slur, grow the fuck up x.x
by Thegoodolddays; ; Report
so with ur logic faggot isnt a slur either
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lily ★
its very admirable that you took the time to write this :)
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quackafied!! :3 🍉
i'm glad you've apologized and are working to improve!!! i'm sorry you had to go through that :c
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sugarmama 🍉
I'm glad you apologised and provided an explanation for your previous behaviour!! I'm really really sorry that you had to experience that, and I really empathise with what you went through, take care!!
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Simon (Inactive)
I assumed your behavior was a result of environment. Im glad you took responsibility and apologized properly :)
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