Response to Yak's "radical and violent opinion" -- CHEATING

Yak.
My current partner has been literally traumatized and suffers emotionally a great deal from being cheated on, and seeing his family members cheat and be cheated on his whole life. It's incredibly tragic. I've never been cheatdon and I've never cheated. I can't imagine why one would do that. If you don't wanna B in a committed, long term relationship -- or even a relatinship no matter what, DON"T be in a fking relationship! I think ppl who cheat have serious issues and it sucks they have to hurt others to live out their twisted desires. I'm mildly frightened he might want to or end up cheating on me, which I've never really feared or thought about before. But he has the same mild fear from me I bet as well. But I always assure him. We assure each other. In brutally honest terms, if we want to end the relationship and/or be with someone else, or try dating around, we will end it. But I think we both want intensely a serious relationship. And to me it's romantic, "right", and hot asf to becommitted to one person loyally.
But ya know what I've noticed? A lot of "romance" movies these days are about cheating. Hmm.
I used to enjoy watching such movies and reading lit involving it. It's scandalous and it's entertaining. For make-believe. Not for reality. It's sad a lot of people can't see that.

It's not only immature but it's incredibly toxic and disgusting to cheat. It's incredibly painful and it truly does break parts of you to be cheated on. So. You are correct. It has to be said.