☆ INTRO, DNI, BYI/BYF ☆

☆HI THERE!☆ 

this is my first blog post in a long while, so...

let's start with a quick, more in depth introduction so you can get to know me before friending me, or just learn even more about me if youre already my friend!!

hello hello~!! you can call syd, but squid is also acceptable :) i'm 18 (may 30), enby, and bisexual. i use any pronouns, so feel free to refer to me as whatever you wish! ♡

im a gyaru! banba to be exact but ig tsuyome is also applicable lol... i've been interested in the style/lifestyle since i was about 10 or so, basically since i discovered anime (>.<) i go by shido-chan in the gyaru space! feel free to think of me as ur gyaru big sis! im by no means an expert or authority on the subject as every gal is different in their approaches to the lifestyle and whatnot, but if ur a baby/beginner gal dont hesitate to reach out! gals have to stick together :3

music is one of my obsessions, i love everything from opera to rap to rock to techno... just anything really!! give me a song, and i'm sure i can find something to love about it (o´▽`o)

i think that's enough for now so lets move on into more BYI/BYF territory...

☆*:.｡.BYI/BYF.｡.:*☆

>be aware that i block people freely. if you do something that makes me uncomfortable or if i just dont want you on my page, i will block you, as i have every right to do. 

>if i send you a friend request after youve previously declined a friend request from me, rest assured i'm not trying to spam you. i'm not a friend collector, i'm just very forgetful. ^^;

>if you feel i may have declined your request on accident, feel free to send another one because that may very well be the case!! if it gets declined again, however, then it was on purpose. please do not spam me. (looking at you, band accounts...)

>i love to get IM's but i am quite slow to reply, and i have a terrible habit of going ghost because, once again, i'm forgetful. just know i'm not ignoring you on purpose or to be mean. ♡

>if you fit any of my DNI criteria but havent displayed it on your page and i send you a friend request, please decline. i try to do my own due diligence as much as possible, but ofc things can slip through the cracks sometimes. lets just try to avoid any unpleasantness. ^^

with all that out of the way, lets move on to the DNI list...

☆*:.｡.DNI.｡.:*☆

>racists/homophobes/transphobes/abelists. the usual people no one wants to be associated with. i'm indigenous, enby, bi, and neurodivergent so you truly have no place here if you meet any of that criteria. kindly fuck off, i have no plans to entertain any of your nonsense.

>sexist/misogynistic pricks/incels. i'm not sure why you'd be here in the first place, but fuck off as well.

>if youre right-wing in any way, shape, or form, go away. i dont care if you "share some leftist values" or whatever, youre still bigoted & dont bother friending me.

>pedos/MAPS/whatever those freaks call themselves these days. no explanation needed.

>zoophiles. once again, no explanation needed.

>proshippers/antis. i dont want the drama either groups bring to my page. if youre into anything problematic (i.e. pedophillic, egregiously abusive, etc.) then obvs i dont wanna be associated with that, but im also a grown ass adult and dont wanna be involved in any witch hunts either. basically, like what you like and dislike what you dislike, just leave me out of it & i'll do the same. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

>anti-furry. I'm not a furry myself, but be serious. theres worse/weirder folks out there, dont friend me if you act like theyre the end of the world.

>under 13, over 29.

>weeaboos/koreaboos. i know cringe culture is dead and all, and a lot of ppl (myself included) use those terms ironically, but genuinely. if youre annoying and fetishizing japanese/korean culture (or any culture for that matter) then see yourself out. i dont wanna hear about how japan is some utopia or how korean men are so much hotter.

>TCC. i dont care if you "dont condone" oe whatever. i dont wanna see your adam lanza or eric harris pfp, youre weird.

>fatphobes. dont try to argue with me about how "fAtPhObIa DoEsNt ExIsT!!!111" youre a bigot plain and simple. so scram.

>zionists. we support palestine over here, so take your genocide supporting ass somewhere else.

>rcta (race change to another). just... no. begone.

aaand i think thats everything! thank you for reading & i hope we can be friends here!! (*^^)