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I am so FUCKING PISSED
WHO THE FUCK TOLD HER!?!!?? HMM?! WHEN I FIND WHOEVER DID THIS THEY WILL NEVER OPEN THEIR MOUTH AGAIN.
I AM GOING TO MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE PHYSICALLY UNABLE TO WALK, SPEAK, OR MOVE DO YOU UNDERSTAND ME.
THE NEXT PERSON WHO SO MUCH AS BREATHES WRONG AT ME WILL BE PUNCHED AT THE VERY LEAST.
SOMEHOW MY MOTHER FOUND OUT ABOUT ME AND ASH AND GAVE A WHOLE FUCKING LECTURE ABOUT HOW I'M NOT DATING RIGHT NOW AND I CAN'T HAVE CRUSHES. THAT IF I DON'T TELL HER EVERY SINGLE THING ABOUT MY LIFE ITS "SNEAKY"
LIKE, THE FUCK??!!
So to my friends, I TOLD YOU TO KEEP IT UNDER FUCKING WRAPS BECAUSE I FUCKING KNEW THIS WOULD HAPPEN.
I'm sorry, ok, I am just so FUCKING upset and I don't know what the fuck to do. I'm just so fucking angry and it's not even been 3 hours since I woke up and I'm having a shitty fucking day.
And Ash, if you're reading this, this doesn't mean I wanna break things off, this doesn't mean shot about you and me. I still wanna be your boyfriend and I'm not gonna listen to anyone who's trying to dictate my life when it's not any of their business.
My mom said it is her business because "I am your legal guardian and your mother. I have to protect you and blah blah." Ok? And? I don't need to be protected from my feelings or my boyfriend. She said it's "unhealthy" and goes on to say that people can be possessive and that's unhealthy and blah blah.
What. The. Fuck.
Like I know people can be possessive and shit, but it's not been a fucking WEEK.
So if you see me angry or anything today, this is why.
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xxchellyxx
I want to be friends with you, seeing how you blow your edge off is so fucking cool. And whatever is going on in your life I just want to know that you don’t have to put up with people’s bullshit even if it makes you a rude btc 💞
Aw thx!
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samsux
part of growing up is learning how to responsibly manage your relationships with other people — not just romantically or platonically, either. a big part of it is having to learn how to properly conduct yourself with others, and how they should ideally do the same when interacting with you. i think your mom is gonna be your mom for a great many years and say these kinds of things, regardless of how you personally feel about it. part of growing up means you have to learn to live with those comments in a way that doesn't degrade that existing relationship. you have to be the better person. some of the things she said here, if she did really say it the exact way you're saying she did, isn't great and she sure could've done a better job of it. but growing up means you have to look past that and do what you can to be the best person you can be, outside of all the bullshit that gets thrown on you all the time. i think you've got this.
try to work with her rather than against her. i know she might seem unreasonable or cruel, but she would probably think the same thing about you if you didn't do your part, you know? that's what it means to build relationships — it's not about "both people putting in half the effort". no, it's about "both people putting in their full effort".
sorry if this doesn't make much sense. if i could summarize it: damn this sounds rough. i've been in this kinda situation before, and what helped was to work with it rather than against it. i know all i wanted to do was fight the powers that be and scream fuck you to everything i know, but i knew that wouldnt get me anywhere other than tiring my voice. dont let your voice be drained by your own hand — just because she's no saint doesn't mean you have to let yourself stoop to the level of a sinner (or something like that)
Thank you. I was able to talk with her and work some things out and you're right: talking with someone and working with them rather than against them is much more helpful.
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kittylover10301
who ash?
my bf :DD
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! whokilledzoe !
The fact that she had the audacity to say "relationships are possessive" when literally shes trying to take control of your love life... sorry that happened chase, i hope u fimd the person!
thanks zoe
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ayla ☆
im so sorry chase<3 i wish i was at school with you atm and stuff. and i feel so bad. i hope i didnt tell anyone or anything (i dont think i did NO im postive i didnt tell katy or will) and if i could i would take all your suffering with your mother for you. like if i could i would take all your pain away. you have every single right to be mad at your mother and she is rlly crappy. Im so sorry your mother is like this. probably the best thing 2 do is to just try to ignore it. like when you get home just try to stay away from her which is hard i know but LETS TALLK MORE AT SCHOOL PLSS OK ERENMM IM SORRY IM NOT GOOD AT COMFERTING PPL ok yeahrhh if you need anyone im here<33 lyyy<33
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It's ok. and my mother isnt always crappy she just isnt gret about dating n stuff
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☆ Loser ☆
im so fucking sorry your mom is like this :((( i will kill her with you dw <3333333333 LOVE YOU
no im not gonna kill her im gonna kill whoever told her
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Love you too!
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SHITE SORRY I MEANT ILL HELP YOU KILL WHOEVER TOLD HER SORRY <3333
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NO IT OK
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HAMILTON<3
I'm sorry you feel that way
its ok
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