struggling fr (dating as a non binary person)

Being non binary isn't the worst thing ever, but dating???? OMFG ITS TERRIBLE. I don't understand why people (specifically men) always act so odd about my identity. The guys that have flirted with me in the past KNEW that I'm non binary but the moment I want a relationship they back out bc of my identity. It makes me feel awful, like imagine you think there's someone who is genuinely interested in you but they only want you for s*x. Kinda makes me feel worthless tbh. There's only been one guy that hasn't treated me differently bc of my identity and I'm very grateful :') Hopefully the right person will come in my life.. womp womp


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⚝Watcher⚝

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I honestly don't understand this kind of people.Like,is it really necessary to act so weird when your partner feels comfortable enough to come out??
On the other hand,it seems like your identity is a unique way to quickly scare the creeps off,so maybe that's even useful 👀


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wow that sounds terrible im sorry. i havent dated anyone yet but its so messed up to be w/ someone and show interest temporarily to get what they want. please hold onto your self worth. those ppl are aholes..


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thank you sm, i will :'3

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