being chronically ill is so weird

i'll have discussions with a friend or partner about normal shit that happens for me and apparently it is very much not normal. like. what do you MEAN you need to eat every few hours?? you get hungry that fast?? i'm good for like 6+ hours!! do you ACTUALLY go to the bathroom several times a day? i need to REMIND myself to go at least once!! you can just take a shower WHENEVER YOU WANT without feeling like you're going to pass out?? i physically can't shower half the time!! this shit is so wild bro like what da hell. i do not understand the common human experience of functioning