Be whatever the f you want to be, do whatever the f you want to do (but please don't go hurting people just because)

And don't let anyone tell you how you have to live your life or how you have to do stuff or act. Those are biased opinions based on cultural beliefs and memes, more often than not without any kind of scientific facts to back them up. Live your life the way it makes you more happy. Just avoid hurting other people as much as possible. And if someone tells you what you're doing is wrong or that you're doing something you shouldn't be doing for a person of your age/gender/culture, politely tell them to go f themselves.

We don't have to live in a robot factory where every individual is shaped equally, you know... people can be different. Have different tastes, different opinions, different ways of seeing things, different ways of enjoying life. Part of everyone's culture comes from those differences. There is no point in trying so hard to maintain those values as they get outdated quickly, specially now in the information era.

I know it's hard. I know how bad it feels to see how everyone treats you as if you were crazy just because you don't think like everyone else does or you don't do what everyone does. It's hard to go "against" the world, like a rebel. But it's something you get used to. And after that, you'll be on top of all that. And you will realize a lot of things you wouldn't have realized if you didn't free yourself, about life, our society, and the ones building our society. Specially the later.