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me(14F) and this guy on tiktok (26M) are arguing on tiktok. I commented on a video where a sweet lady was singing. Her singing was awful and she didnt even know the lyrics. I commented "Sorry for having to say this, but you cannot sing. Please stop embarrasing urself on the internet." cuz i felt really bad for that woman because she was getting a lot of hate and people were sarcasticly saying that she was good and telling her that she should participate in a singing show. She wouldve been the countries biggest joke if she did so. She also has autism and ADHD, so she cant really tell when people are being sarcastic. I feel so bad for her and i was just trying to help that poor woman. I ment no harm, i just wanted to help. Then this guy on tiktok, im gonna call him Peter. Peter replied to my comment saying "she is good at singing. She can be herself. She is better than you". I was confused. I wondered if he was joking or not, so i replied again. "are you tonedeaf or are you joking?". He was not joking. He was Mr. niceman. He called me mean, bully and kept saying i was jealous of myself? this realllyyyyy confused me becuase i did not bully anyone. I explained to him what i meant and he didnt understand. He kept calling me mean and a bully. This kind of upset me a little because i am not a bully nor am i mean!? I kept trying to explain what i meant, but he just kept on telling me i was a bully and im bullying him and that woman. He was acting like an inmature little bitch(sorry). Mind you he is TWENTY-SIX years old and he is arguing with a 14 year old. I was writing in a nice manner and tried explaining myself again and again, but he kept on saying i was bullying him and calling me mean. He kept on repeating himself over and over. He didnt have any other comebacks. He is a grown man and doesnt even know what real bullying is. Emberrasing. The fact that i had to explain it to him was emberrasing. Like he is 26, how childish can you be? I kept accusing me of saying mean things about him and that woman, when i never did that. He was literally gaslighting me, like what? I then called him rude for accusing me of stuff im not and never did. And then he replied with "I am not mean! You dont know me, so you cant call me mean!". Like he hadnt called me mean in every of his replies! He isnt making sense! He wont stop calling me mean and jealous. Even other people got what i meant and they defended me. This guy keeps playing victim. He is on my nerves! I think he has a diagnosis too, because a grown adult doesnt act that way. He was wayyyy to inmature. If you judged by the way he wrote and I wrote, then you wouldve guessed that I was the adult.
(update) the lady is gonna perform at a music festival... I feel so bad for her. Its a music festival where anyone can perform on stage. Thousands of people are going to watch and its gonna be streamed on their website...
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squish
oh wow! i know im late but i wanted to comment on this because i think this is pretty interesting :3 (and this may be long, so i apologize)
first of all, even if you didnt intend to come off as mean, people will take it how they will and thats ok. you literally told a woman you dont know to stop embarrassing herself online completely unprompted. if she took that as rude or mean, she has a right to feel that way no matter the intention. i can see how you had no ill will towards her, and thats because ive done close to the same thing. my mom would often go on deployment and during those times i wouldnt miss her, and i told her so. it wasnt my intention to hurt her feelings, but i did, so i apologized. me not intending to hurt her feelings doesnt take away how she felt. so, even if you didnt intend to come off as mean, no ones in the wrong for taking it that way (in my opinion)
also, i dont see the point in critiquing that lady if it wasnt going to be constructive. telling someone they cant sing isnt constructive, telling someone they cant sing because their pitch is way off, and they lyrics are completely wrong, and theyre not projecting well, is constructive. you mentioned in another comment she was planning on performing, so you shouldve been more constructive with what you said
anyway, i know you did have bad intent but people will feel how they feel. as for the guy, yea it was weird of him to argue with you at his big age, i wouldve just blocked (i dont like arguing online like that). sorry again for how long this was!!
im sorry, but its literally impossible to be honest today...
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??? never said you couldn't be honest. I said people will feel how they feel no matter what your intentions were.
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rosalba :3
a 26 year old shouldn't be talking to a 14 year old at all, in my opinion. what you said was unnecessary but a grown man has no business talking to a child.
im pretty sure it was necessary. This woman is a grown adult and should be able to handle critism when she posts herself singing. I hate to admit it, but she is really bad. No one tells this woman the truth. I actually feel sorry for her.
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