I need advice ᯤ ᯅ ᯤ

So very recently my bf (well ex bf now) started being super mean and like ghosting me (theres more to this part but i dont want to go into it) that was kinda before we broke up and then we decided to break up (it wasnt really up to me). Every since we broke up he avoids me and or ignores me and idk what he's been telling his friends but all of them have been talking about me every second of the day and its upsetting and I hate when people do that. The amount of times I've gone home crying cuz of it is crazy. I want to talk to him and work something out one cuz I like him still and two cuz I want his friends to stop talking about me. Ive tried to reach out to him for two weeks now and he still is ghosting me my friends have told him to at least speak to me (I may have told them to🧏🏽‍♀️) I dont care whether we get back together or not (dont get me wrong tho I do still love him like a lot) I just want everyone to stop talking shit about me and giving me looks every time they see me its literally the worst and is so annoying and upsetting. I dont want to tell like a teacher cuz thats litterally just gonna make shit worse than it already is and I dont want him to hate me more so  Idk what to do and some advice would be nice.