Being able to say "I love you" early on in relationships platonic and non platonic needs to be more acceptable.
I've read All About Love & Salvation by bell hooks (my queen) but ive never finished it but my revelation for this initially came about when I felt myself forming a crush on someone, sounds childish but I felt like saying I love you to them or imagining myself saying it (:p) to them but then I realize how people frown upon saying I love you quite early because of being judged, lovebombing, and or fear of being vulnerable.
I know myself as I struggle to be vulnerable, part of why Im scared of relationships, but this type of being vulnerable is disallowing you to feel emotion.
Back to tying my connection of saying I love you to ABL by bell hooks, I feel like saying that you love someone needs to be more often. the more you allow yourself to feel i feel like you become happier.
Anyway, saying I love you needs to be more acceptable like why does it have so many circumstances?
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