Am i wrong for doxxing my friend because she didint support my neogender?

Hi, I'm 14F and my friend 15F. I've been identifying as a toaster for atleast 2 years (since 2022)

And I told my friend today, and she said "what the hell???" it really hurt my feelings.

Then she started to draw toasters with a face on it and said "it's you" and mocked me.

I was on the edge of tears because I'm really comfortable In my gender. So I called her tran/neophobic and she just laughed. So I doxxed her. I sent her address to 5 different servers with 17k members, I also told someone she abused me just for them to find her and do the same to her.

She was mean and I personally think she deserved this. AM I IN THE WRONG?