intro + DNI stuff

(edited some changes after a little reflection)

hey, what's up. i'm Valentine (or Nexus), and i am a syshost. 18 y/o as of Oct. 9th. chronically ill. i primarily use neos(ze/hir, ix/ixs, and the like), no xenos. i like neutral terms, but masculine terms are acceptable. i'm at the very start the process of medically transitioning, so that is exciting. im scene but i dabble in a variety of different subcultures and music like many people do. check out the list of music on my profile if you'd like. i most often listen to post-hardcore and melodic metalcore, eurodance and happy hardcore, trancecore, some dark psytrance, some darkwave, ebm, industrial, etc. the list goes on. but im super open if you'd like to share music with me and stuff, especially if it is something i haven't heard of, that'd be super cooool. i am a primarily digital artist, but i also make kandi and jewelry in general. i dabble a bit in game dev but i still have alooooot to learn. thank my online pixel art/game dev friends for teaching me so much indirectly. i live in an urban area in the U.S. and i'm running out of things to say. check out my profile lists if you wanna learn more. fast forward to the DNI and everything ->

DNI criteria

> racist, misogynist, homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, islamophobe, zionist, anti-semite, etc etc

> p*do/m*ps, zooph*les, etc, r*pe jokes, creepy commenting on body

> rad-fem, terf, rad-in/exclusionists

> below 14

> using mental illness to justify harmful actions towards others, anti-recovery

limited interaction (can add just we probably won't talk much in depth)

> you only want to come to me to vent/trauma dump (we won't talk but idc if you add)

> you think debates = non-constructive criticism and fighting

> under 16 (small talk)

interact with me, these all make me way more comfortable!!!!

> you want to infodump about your interests, especially ones we have in common

> 17+ 

> you like to start the conversations if I don't start them

> want to play videogames together

> you want to share art or ask for critique

> like to have serious or meaningful convos sometimes but balance it out with silly topics